Do you hate speed dating? Men move around, women sit down, the same questions over and over again and the pressure to choose someone at the end of the evening. It all feels just a *little bit* forced. So we decided to throw the rules out of the window and create something entirely new and fun. Here's what we came up with:
Make friends, not dates: when we're trying really hard to get a date, we all start to act a bit weird, so let's focus on making friends and then take it from there (if you want to?) with no pressure whatsoever! It's far more relaxed for everyone! You can't have fun if you're always thinking about meeting THE ONE!
Non-gendered seating: we know that gender is a spectrum and that some people don't identify as men or women, so we're randomly going to decide who moves around and who stays sitting down.
Sex positive: this means that we celebrate sex and sexuality in all its forms in a shame-free environment. We want sexual freedom for everyone! This includes being LGBTQ+ friendly, kink friendly, poly friendly and generally...friendly!
Body positive: all bodies are beautiful and welcome! Please contact us with any accessibility queries.
Consent & Boundaries: the easiest way to have a good time is to establish shared values and we really care about everyone feeling comfortable and safe during the evening. Therefore, we will start with a short consent and boundaries workshop, where attendance is mandatory.
FUN: don't worry, we've got this one covered, we're just letting you know what to expect :)